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:'( :'( :'( Sorry i wasnt around much yesterday but a very good man in the herping world that was JR and I's best friend, herping buddy, rep swap comrad and all around cool person working with us in the herping world died sometime sunday, he wasnt found till late night monday.. He took his own life, with a 357 mag to the head... We shall sadly miss you" Tim Fromer ", JR is lost now you was one of his best friends in the world.. :'( :'( :'( 12Yrs. of friendship is now shatterd, and his poor wife and kids, why would someone ever do them selfs in like that... Those poor kids... :'( :'( :'( JR is taking it pretty bad as he also use to work with Tim on many of welding jobs, Gona try to place what was left of his animals, his wife and kids gona keep a few.. We just went thru all this last yr with another close friend of his that he worked with and he also took his life with a gun to the head... :'( :'(
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Sorry to hear cuda hope everything goes well with the placing and raising money for the family..
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My heart goes out to Tim's family and close friends.
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Sorry to hear Tracey. I thoughts and prayers are with you and JR as well as the family members of Tim Fromer. It still baffles me has to why people would want to take their own lives with family that means a lot to them.
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My prayer's are with you also Cuda and Tim's wife and kids...........
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I was saved by sombody or entaty once.. I tryed to take my life with a 9 mm with hollow tips... Loaded and cleaned the gun one day the next I tryed to kill my self and all my bullets where taken out of my clips... And gone. And it was kept in a room I only had access too... I guess I was meant to be hear... Sorry to here about your friend cuda'.. I know it must be real hard... I have had a friend take his life once too... That was what sent me down the same road... I found a lil' crack of light and ran for it though... I often say "I am not a christian but I belive in god"... That experence is why... That and I found a penny the same day that had a cross stamped through it and put it in my pocket... It kept comming back.. Like I would leave it on a table walk away a couple hours later it would be back in my pocket... I still have that penny like 7 years later... And it still shows up in my pocket somtimes.... I found my self with the will to quit drugs and save my life.... I tell you when you are addicted to speed, heron, and coke it is hard to stop all at the same time... Infact the treatment center that turned me away said it could not be done all at once... They said I would die...
Well I hope you find a home for all those rep.s and give my lov' to the family...
Remeber compasion is the way of light... Do your self a fav. and never let you mind stray into anger...
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sorry cuda,
His family and friends has my prayers and thoughts.Comment
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sorry to hear about your loss cuda all of our prayers are with you, be strong and help those poor babies get through this! and red im glad you are still here with us u have been a wonderful part of this forum!Comment
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:'(Thanks everyone, not only for your kind words but for being here as you all are part of our family... Red i am very glad you are here with us today, we have seen this tragedy way to many times... Im glad Evil is commin this weekend as it will help take JR's mind off things, even though we are gona attend service on friday.. JR needs a good buddy right now and Evil will be here for him...
Thank You once again, we love yaz all.....
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First off, my prayers and thoughts go out to cuda, JR, and Tim's family. It's a sad thing to hear. :'(
I hope this isn't too long but i thought I'de share it with yall since everyone's friendship and help and made me feel like family here.
It's been a very bad 2 years for the construction industry here and hundreds of people have been laid off for a very long time. I was one of those people a year ago. When you have a house note, car note, utility bills, credit card bills, on top of careing for my reptiles and other animals, the pressure to work on top of the fact that unemployment benifits only last so long and is just enough to skate you past bill time every month, the pressure to take care of the household gets very overwhelming. Well, with unemployment ending and the thought of loosing everything you have crosses your mind a thousand times, something has to give. I used to keep a single shot 10 gauge under my bed and one say I was gonna take my own life cuz I couldn't handle the pressure, I drove myself litterally crazy. My wife, at the time my girlfriend, just so happend to step in the house when I almost made the mistake of my life. I felt I had god in my corner and at that point in time I knew it wasen't worth dying for. I realized you can loose everything you have but at least your alive to be able to start over. Unfortunately some people can't be reached and mistakes are made. I have lost 2 friends to this kind of mistake and now I know how it feels to lose someone that is so close and dear to you. Again, I'm praying for Tim's family, cuda and JR and if yall need anything, give me a shout. And if any of the reptiles need a good home, I will be glad to care for one. Let me know what needs to be placed and I'll do everything I can to help. Much love to yall.
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